For queer men who would rather do something than swipe.
BigBro is a community + events platform for gay, bi, and queer men. Plan your own meet-ups, find partners-in-crime for the things you care about, build the chosen crew you keep returning to. Dating may happen — it's not the point.
18+ only. Berlin-built.
Find your crew
Plan a Stammtisch. Watch Eurovision together. Form a FIFA team. BigBro is for organising your own events with queer men nearby — and finding the people to come with you.
Hashtag matching, not photo swiping
Pick the things you actually care about — bondage to Bachelor parties, Bach to bouldering. Matches are people who chose enough of the same tags as you, not faces in a grid.
Privacy by default
Disappearing messages, view-once mode, smart address sharing on a timer, revoke-everything button, full data export. Made in Berlin, hosted in Frankfurt.
Safe on iOS, full on web
iOS gives you safe-mode community + messaging. Web gives you the full picture: adult profile fields, private albums, the works. The split is structural — not just a UI hide.
Safety, plainly
- 18+ only. Zero-tolerance for minors. Suspected CSAM reported to NCMEC.
- Every photo human-reviewed. Manual moderation queue with 24h SLA, ML pre-filter for obvious cases.
- Disappearing messages — per-conversation, after-sent, after-read, view-once.
- Clear chat + revoke all sharing in one click each.
- Real data export (GDPR Art. 15) + in-app account deletion (30-day grace).
- EU data residency: Supabase Frankfurt. Lead supervisory authority: Berlin BlnBDI.
Read the full policy stack: Privacy · Terms · Community Guidelines · Imprint